Breaking Up Stinks

Even when it’s between two pretty self-reflective and kind people. Even when it’s a calm conversation. Even when it’s pretty clear both people just wanted different things. Even when even when even when. It just hurts.

“Relationships END; it doesn’t mean they were a failure, or that your ex-parters are bad people.”
And:

“You can’t expect to HAVE what you want if you don’t ASK for what you want.”
“Just because you FEEL BAD doesn’t necessarily mean someone did something WRONG.”
“If you’re AFRAID to say it, that means you NEED to say it.”
“EXPECTATION on your part does not incur OBLIGATION on someone else’s.”
“Love is ABUNDANT.”
“Relationships are often different in THEORY than in PRACTICE.”
“Be FLEXIBLE.”
“Life is CHANGE.”
“All of us are terrible at predicting how we will feel in new circumstances.”
“When you hurt someone-and you will- suck it up, take responsibility, and do what you can to make it RIGHT.”
“Feelings are not FACT.”

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