One of my most-read posts is the one in which I review and compare Club Sesso and The Velvet Rope. It’s long overdue for an update!

Club Sesso no longer exists- in the same exact location and under new ownership, Club Privata stands. The Velvet Rope still exists. And, Portland now hosts a new lifestyle club on par with those two, Sanctuary. The owners do not describe Sanctuary as a swingers club- rather as a sex-positive, “sex-possible” club. Below, my ratings. (Note- I have not visited Velvet Rope in a couple of years, and so know that things could be different there. I’ve been to both Privata and Sanctuary in the last couple of months.)

Portland's lifestyle scene has seen some changes in recent years, with the closure of Club Sesso and the emergence of new venues like Club Privata and Sanctuary. These clubs offer unique experiences for those interested in the lifestyle community, providing different atmospheres and amenities to cater to various preferences.

Club Privata has taken over the location formerly occupied by Club Sesso, continuing the tradition of being a hub for swingers and those exploring their sexuality. The club offers multiple levels, each with distinct themes and settings, allowing guests to choose their desired level of interaction and intimacy. Club Privata is known for its well-organized events and parties, creating a vibrant and welcoming environment for newcomers and regulars alike.

Sanctuary, on the other hand, sets itself apart by promoting a "sex-positive" and "sex-possible" ethos rather than strictly defining itself as a swingers club. This inclusive approach attracts a diverse crowd, emphasizing consent and mutual respect. Sanctuary's events often feature workshops and discussions on various aspects of sexuality, fostering a community that values education and personal growth alongside pleasure. Whether you’re seeking a night of exploration or a deeper understanding of sex-positivity, Sanctuary provides a unique and enriching experience.

If you've visited these clubs or have experiences to share, feel free to leave a comment and contribute to the ongoing conversation about Portland's evolving lifestyle scene. Your insights can help others navigate and enjoy these dynamic spaces.

Definitely leave a comment if you have a different experience or things to add!